Dear readers, in my last blog post I had asked you to stay tuned ... So here you go....
The post "Who Won" , talks about restoration of trust in humanity. In this blog post, I will describe an incident which I personally experienced. Whenever I become too cynical and distrustful about any person or a situation or life in general, I try to recall this real life story . It gives me hope.
The first experience goes way back , about 18 - 19 years ago when I had to visit Cyprus for a very difficult assignment. My return itinerary had a flight change at Dubai. I was travelling alone. The inward flight from Nicosia, Cyprus was late by 4 hours due to bad weather. The next flight was on the next day, early morning.
This disruption was not too unwelcome from me. I am a travel bug and I saw this as an opportunity to see the Dubai city. And this was like a Godsend opportunity for me to buy some dresses and toys for my 5 year old daughter. Due to work pressure and a bit due to lack of planning, I could not buy gifts for her from Cyprus.
By the time I got a one day transit visa made at the airport, checked in at the hotel booked by the Airlines, it was already 6 pm in the evening.I did not know anything about Dubai , where to go, how to go ! Understand that there were no Google maps or Ubers or such prolific internet facility at that time .
I inquired at the lobby helpdesk but could not understand anything due to the heavy Arabic accent. All the signage were mostly Arabic. I could hardly see any females on the streets. I did not want to go alone in a taxi as I did not know the place or the markets or anyone there.
I sat down on a Sofa, feeling disappointed. Suddenly, a bearded young man came and greeted me "Salaam Alekum !"
"Hullo" I said.
"You want to go to a market to buy toys ? There is a huge market quite nearby where you will get fantastic electronic games . I heard you inquire about it at the reception "
"Err.. yes.. but ... " I faltered.
"I am also going that way, if you want we can go together and come back together"
Maybe because I was too distressed by visualizing my daughter's disappointed face, I jumped at the proposition.
If I look back now, I shiver.
An unknown place which has very strict laws, I am alone, I do not know the language. I do not have a cell phone, I have very little money on me and a stranger proposes to me about accompanying him to the market which I do not not know is real or fictitious and I accompany him happily !
An unknown place which has very strict laws, I am alone, I do not know the language. I do not have a cell phone, I have very little money on me and a stranger proposes to me about accompanying him to the market which I do not not know is real or fictitious and I accompany him happily !
I did not even know his name and till date I do not know it !
As we sat in the taxi , he said he was from Pakistan ! That made me very uneasy. But the damage was already done.As I sat stiffly without uttering a word, my friend (??!!) asked the taxi to stop infront of a well lit mall. The market was really a paradise for electronic toys. I went about browsing the toys, asking the price , checking what best I can fit into my budget and he too did the same. Finally I bought the toys and also a very cute frilly pink frock (My daughter still remembers the dress ) .
As we sat in the taxi , he said he was from Pakistan ! That made me very uneasy. But the damage was already done.As I sat stiffly without uttering a word, my friend (??!!) asked the taxi to stop infront of a well lit mall. The market was really a paradise for electronic toys. I went about browsing the toys, asking the price , checking what best I can fit into my budget and he too did the same. Finally I bought the toys and also a very cute frilly pink frock (My daughter still remembers the dress ) .
With my hand full of bags, I was contemplating whether to return to the hotel alone or not, suddenly I saw the person running towards me .
"Oh ! Sorry ! I was buying some chocolates and you had disappeared . I got worried. It is quite late , let us have dinner and return to the hotel"
Some sense had come back to me .
"No.. I don't want any dinner . I will manage alone. You carry on ... "
He contemplated for a while. I stood still. I had bought a small pocket knife by then.
"Ok ... lets go then ..." and he hailed a taxi.
It seemed like eternity but finally we reached the hotel. I was sweating in trepidation by then.
He helped me with my packets till I reached the elevator . As the door closed, he smiled and said "Bye ! Good Luck !"
That was the last time I saw the gentleman.
I do not know his name. I do not know his address , contact number or email.
I could not say "Thank you " to him, ever.
The world does have good people.
Let us not put narrow walls around us based on religion, nationality, race , colour, sex or appearance. Yes, we have to be careful since there are wolves around us too. But let us not lose trust.
Let us not put narrow walls around us based on religion, nationality, race , colour, sex or appearance. Yes, we have to be careful since there are wolves around us too. But let us not lose trust.
Let us not lose hope ....
Cheers !