"Do you know what I just heard about your friend?"
"Hold on a minute," Socrates
replied. "Before you talk to me about my friend, it might be good idea to
take a moment and filter what you’re going to say.
I call it the Triple Filter
test. The first filter is "Truth". Have you made absolutely sure that what you
are about to tell me is true?"
"Well, no," the man said,
"actually I just heard about it and…"
"All right," said Socrates.
"So you don’t really know if it’s true or not.
Now, let’s try the second
filter, the filter of "Goodness". Is what you are about to tell me about my
friend something good?"
"Umm, no, on the contrary…"
"So," Socrates continued,
"you want to tell me something bad about my friend, but you’re not certain
it’s true.
You may still pass the test though, because there’s one filter left—the
filter of "Usefulness". Is what you want to tell me about my friend going to be
useful to me?"
"No, not really."
"Well," concluded Socrates,
"if what you want to tell me is
neither true, nor good, nor even useful, why tell it to me at all?"
If all of us use this Triple Filter test, the world will be a much better place, isn't it ?
your blog will make readers wise.
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DeleteWell said, Ananya! A lot of grief comes in this world because we humans just cannot keep our tongue in check. :(
ReplyDeleteCheers!
Pramod.
You are right, Pramod !
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